BBC: What is the manosphere?

We hear a lot about difficulties young men face growing up in the modern world, and how many of them are looking online for answers. This has created a situation which has been given teh name 'the manosphere'.What exactly is the manosphere? Here's Anita Rani, presenter of BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour, with one definition. 

The manosphere consists of online communities and influencers that promote the idea that emotional control, material wealth, pysical appearance and dominance, especially over women, are markers of male worth. 

The manosphere describes attitudes expressed online that men are superior. You won't find any website named www.manosphee.com,   

But in social media posts, Tik Tok videos and other online content, ideas about how to be a man are finding young male audience, sometiems with damaging results. 

In this episode, we'll hear from Will Adoiphy, a young British man who followed teh manosphere until, in his mid-twenties, he suffered a breakdown. And as usual, we'll learn some useful new words and phrases. And remember- you'll find all the vocabulary from this episode on our website, bbclearningenglish.com. 

But first, I have a question for you, Georgie. According to men's a self-help group the Movement Foundation, a majority of British  young men regularly engage with masculinity influencers online, but how many exactly? Is it

a) two thirds     b) three quarters   or   c) eight tenths?

I'm going to guess a) two thirds. 

OK, well, we'll find out the answer later in the programme. The manosphere includes the idea  that the world is biased against men. According to the social media influencers who promote these views, being a man means being strong, rich and controlling others, especially women. 

As a young boy, Will Adolpy was unlike other boys at school, and as he grew into a teenagers, he started engaging with some of these ideas. Here, he tells BBC Radio 4 programme Woman's Hour how it all started. 

I didn't quite fit in the box- you know, I wa soing ballet, I wanted to be an actor, I wrote poetry- and I was an easy target. By the time I got to 14 years old, if you look at pictures of me, you can see bravado, you can see a mask- I see it. I unknowingly did my best to adhere to what we call the 'man box', which is a kind of rigid set of ideals and rules that I may feel pressure  as a boy to follow, in order to be a quote unquote 'real man'.

The teenage years can be difficult for someone who's different . Will enjoyed poetry and ballet, and he says this made him an easy target- someone who's vulnerable and easily taken advantage of. 

Will responded with bravado- a show of bravery to impress other people but which often hides someone's true feelings. He felt pressure to present himself as a quote unquote 'real man'. The phrase quote unquote can't be used to show you're repeating someone else's words, especially  if you don't agree with them. 

But behind the bravado, Will struggled to get a girlfriend or hold down a job. Offline, his life seemed to reflect messages he saw in the videos he was watching online, that his problems were caused by women. Here's Will again, sharing more with BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour. 

When I went online to search for answers, I had an influencer telling me, 'The world hates men.' which really felt true. And it, kind of, distorted my worldview, where it got painted over- this whole brush...where I started to feel that was really true: that everyone hates men, so it was an us versues them. 

Will's view of the world became distorted- twisted out of shape and unrealistic. He started seeing everyone as an enemy. Will says the painted everyone with the same brush- an idiom meaning to unairly think everyone has the same bad qualities as a certain person.