BBC: Choose to text instead of talk

Has this ever happedn to you? Someone too busy texting to talk. With the huge rise of mobile phones in recent decades, communicating by text has become more and more popular and scenes like this have become increasingly common. 

... and send! There, all done! Now, what were you saying, Neil?

In this programme, we'll be investigating why people often coose to text, instead of talk to the people in their lives. We'll be asking whether this popular form of communication is changing how we interact with each other. 

And, of course, we'll be learning some related vocabulary as well. Now, Neil, what did you want to ask me?

My quiz question, Georgina, which is this. Young people are often the biggest users of mobile phones, but in a 2016 study, what perchentage of British teenagers said they would prefer to send a text rather than speak to someone, even if they were in the same room? Is it:

a) 9 percent?, b) 49 percent?, or, c) 99 percent?

That sounds pretty shocking! I can't believe 99 percent of teenagers said that, so I'll guess b) 49 percent.

Ok, Georgina. We'll find out later if that's right. In one way, the popularity of texting, sometimes called 'talking with thumbs', is understandable- people like to be in control of what they say.

But this low-risk way of hiding behind a screen may come at a cost as neuroscientis, Professor Sophie Scott, explained to Sandra Kanthal, for BBC World Service programme, The Why Factor:

When we'talk with our thumbs' by text sor email or instant message, we're often prioritising speed over clarity and depth. But when we can't hear the way someone is speaking it's all too easy to misunderstand their intention. 

So if I say a phrase like, 'Oh shut up!' -has a different meaning than, 'Oh shut up!' There's an emotional thing there buta also a strong kind of intonation: one's sort of funny, one's just aggressive. Written down it's just aggressive- 'Shut up!- and you can't soften that. [...] We always speak with melody and intonation to our voice and we'll change our meaning depending on that. You take that channel of information out of communication you lose another way that sense is being conveyed. 

When reading a text instead of listening to someone speak, we miss out on the speaker's intonation- that's the way the voice rises and falls when speaking. 

Intonation, how a word is said, often changes the meaning of words and phrases- small groups of words people use to say something particular. 

Reading a phrase like, 'Oh shut up!' in a text, instead of hearing it spoken aloud makes it easy to misunderstand the speaker's intention- their aim, or plan of what they want to do. 

And it's not just the speaker's intention that we miss. A whole range of extra information is conveyed through speech, from the speaker's age and gender to the region they're from. 

Poet, Gary Turk, believes that we lose something uniquely human when we stop talking. And there are practicla problems involved with texting too, as he explains to BBC World Service's. The Way Facor:

If you speak to someone in person and they don't respond right away, that would be rude. But you might be speaking to someone in person and someone texts you... and it would be rudder for you then to stop that conversation and speak to the person over text...yet the person on the other side of the text is getting annoyed- you haven't responded right away- it's like we're constantly now creating these situations using our phones that allow us to like tread on mines- no matter what you do, we're going to disappoint people because we're trying to communicate in so many different ways. Do you prioritiese the person on the phone? Would you prioritise the person you're speaking to? Who do you disappoint first? You're going to disappoint somebody. 

So what should you do if a friend texts you when you're already speaking to someone else in person- physically present, face to face?

You can't communicate with both people at the same time, so whatever you do someone will get annoyed- become angry and upset. 

Gary thinks that despite its convenience, texting creates situations where we have to tread on mines, another way of saying that something is a minefield, meaning a situation full of hidden problems and dangers, where people need to take care. 

Yes, it's easy to get annoyed when someone ignores you to text their friend...