Nan's story

힘겨운 한 달의 시간을 보냈다. 익숙하지 않은 곳에서 적응하기 위해 애쓴 시간 이었다. 이번 달은 힘든 시간 애써온 나를 위해 세상이 축하를 해주고 있는 시간이라는 착각을 하며 보내고 싶다. 굳이 종교인이 아니더라도 크리스마스 시즌은 사람들을 즐겁게 해준다. 한 해을 마무리 하는 시간, 조금은 더 따뜻하게, 즐겁게, 마음의 평화를 이루며 이 시기를 보내기를...

1. Think about what happens if you and I stay together. Truely, imagine it. What does that look like in a year, in 10 years? What will happen to your life if I'm the person in the world that you're closest to. How alone will it make you if the one that loves me and the one with me. You can't tell anyone about me. How much is that gonna cut you off your from your family? 2. Let me know if there's..

나의 기준을 가지고 바른 분별을 할 수 있는 것은 내공의 힘이다. 개인적인 감정으로 판단하지 않으며 전체의 이익을 위한 결정을 할 수 있어야 한다. 중간 관리자의 공부를 하며 내 영혼의 성장을 위해 노력한다. 어떤 사람들의 비판에도 흔들리지 않는 중심이 내게 있어야 한다.

1. I've been thinking about this over and over and over. I'm always going to be blocking you from being with someone who's perfect for you. How could you say that? Because Alexander is perfect for you. He is your type. You're my type. Do you think I wanna live without you? Do you think I'll be happy in a place without you? Blue skies lights up the morning. It's the morning. I can't get through t..

1. What is this, the last supper? More like a first date. Turns out, he is really a great cook. He is a really great guy. Ok, I know so are you? I mean really great. I've never had your cooking. So I can't speak to that. L, he's got a family that loves him. And that he loves. It's everhthing I've ever wanted. It's been nice, but it's not mine. 2. Then, you're left in the dust unless you stick by..

동안거 공부를 시작하며 나의 다짐을 적어본다. 1. 겸손한 자세로 내가 처한 환경에서 공부하기 2. 경청하기 3. 의논하기 4. 상생하는 세상이 되기를 5. 희망이 있는 사회가 되기를 6. 통일 되기를 7. 정법을 공부하는 사람들이 많아져 더 나은 삶을 살게 되기를

1.Who forgets their own birthday? Is that the new girl's fault? Mom, I said I was sorry. Pas few days, I don't even recognize you. I don't even know if this teenage angst. 반항, 불안, 방황 But I won't have it. Please, don't be mad. I'm not mad. Your aunts and I cook literally all day preparing that dinner which is at your request, all of your favorite. I'm just disappointed. Neddless to say, I'm keepi..

1. What are you doing up so late? I thought you had a test tomorrow. Mom, I know you and dad are trying to make it work. But every day you can grow a little closer to each other or you can grow a little bit farther apart. Ok, look, I know dad is not who he was. But you're not who you were either. Because we all change. You've changed too. Please, just grow closer. 2. Seems like just yesterday. Y..

1. Joe, I'm really sorry about my car. I feel horrible. Can I tell you what's happening? I'm in love with someone who wakes up in different body everybody. Always,the same age, never the same person twice. Yesterday, he was the kid. I needed to save from his family. Saturday, it was the guy in the pick-up and Sunday, it was a someone, it couldn't make it to the cabin. So that's what this is. 2.H..

시작이 그리 만만치 않다. 서로가 협조해서 함께 하는 일도 의사소통이 필요한 일이다. 소통하고 중지를 모으는 일은 언제나 리더가 해야 할 일이다. 혼자 가는 길이 아닌 함께 가는 길에는 서로에 대한 존중이 있어야 한다. 상대를 아끼는 마음에서 부터 상대를 이롭게 할 수 있는 길이 열린다는 것은 진리이다.